If...

If I had my child

to raise all over again,

I'd build self-esteem first

and the house later.

I'd fingerpaint more

and point the finger less.

I would do less correcting

and more connecting.

I'd take my eyes off my watch,

and watch with my eyes.

I'd take more hikes

and fly more kites.

I'd stop playing serious--

and seriously play.

I would run through more fields

and gaze at more stars.

I'd do more hugging

and less tugging.

--Diane Loomans