Tuesday, April 28, 2009

Blog Button

This past week I worked on creating a blog button:

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If you have been encouraged here, put this blog button on your sidebar so others can find this blog and be encouraged too. Here is the code:


Just copy and paste this code into your side bar. When others click on this it will link directly to this blog. This is also on my sidebar in case you'd like to see how it looks. There is also another widget on my sidebar above this one that shows the updated posts in case you'd like that instead, it is pretty and shows the picture and text of the latest post and updates automatically. If you need any help installing these really simple buttons do feel free to ask!

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Friday, April 24, 2009

A Quiet Place


"Come with me by yourselves to a quiet place and get some rest."

Jesus told this to his disciples in Mark 6:31. This verse has been jumping out at me for the last few days as I opened my Bible to read. I felt the Holy Spirit nudging me to share this verse of wisdom with you. So here we go:

First notice that Jesus says...

"Come with ME..."

Notice that it doesn't say to go to your girlfriend(s), to go to the television, or go to your favorite blog-----but to go with HIM. HE is who we should start the day out with. He is who we need to seek first, He is inviting us.. He is welcoming us. He wants us to be with Him, we do not have to be alone ever, either in challenging or peaceful times.

"..by yourselves.."

Alone? Ahhhhhh yes, every mother and homemaker needs time alone. If Jesus, the Son of God needed time alone to be with the Father to pray to Him, then how much more do we need it? Precious time alone with God we can refreshen our souls, rejuvenate our minds and revive our spirits more than anything else. Our cups overflow with Him, but dry up without Him.

"..to a quiet place..."

I often used to think that if I retreated to a coffeehouse or somewhere similar that I would feel rested. How wrong. I used to think rest would come "if I could just get out to the library for an hour or two because it is so quiet there.." How wrong again! These places seemed like they were quiet but I often found myself not truly rested upon returning home. Why was that? Clearly it was because I wasn't seeking the true rest for my soul--having only had indulged myself in a sort of 'pseudo-rest'. I wasn't spending time with God or His Word, so even if I did make it out to one of these places as a supposed 'break-time' for me I would not come back truly rejuvenated as I had hoped. Ladies, have you experienced this?

"...and get some rest..."

Real rest. See, true rest comes from the true living waters. God is the One who truly "makes me lie down in green pastures, he leads me beside quiet waters, he restores my soul." Psalm 23:2-3 Christians know where true rest comes from. We do not have to seek after rest in vain and not ever truly finding it. It is free and abundantly available, all we must do is to make the time.

"Come with me by yourselves to a quiet place and get some rest."



Tuesday, April 21, 2009

Shrines of Materialism


"I am going to suggest that praising God through serving people is the only reason for domestic art...The American home is being pulled in two non-biblical ways. One is to become a mere refueling stop...The other non-biblical direction home environments have taken is to become shrines of materialism."

Mary Pride, The Way Home

Saturday, April 18, 2009

Sober-Minded Women



Discontentment and lack of joy.

This is how Satan tries to sneak into each and everyone of our lives.

If we are not wise, we allow him to enter...

by NOT taking every thought captive.

By purposefully not taking every thought captive, we allow him to take us captive and we become hostage to his whims--his destructiveness.

We might not know we are doing it. But little by little, we tear down our homes, our families and our marriages with sins such as...

haughty looks, disapproving glances, critical and sarcastic speech, harsh tones, anger, discontentment, cold-heartedness, and a dominating spirit--this list is obviously not exhaustive.

Let me assure you ladies, that women of God WILL be targeted. There is alot at stake. The first person ever in the Bible to be a targeted by Satan himself was the first woman on earth.....Eve.

We cannot raise godly seed, build nations, and transform culture if we are fixated on ourselves with a Jezebelian-like spirit. Satan will attempt to steal our marriage, children and homes if we allow him (and our flesh) to. He wants us distracted, for little foxes destroy the vineyard ( Song of Soloman 2:15).

"The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy; I have come that they may have life, and have it to the full." John 10:10-11

With that in mind, I urge you to think sober-mindedly. To go about your day in joyful peace knowing the Lord is triumphant, but also with your sword of the spirit intact as you remember that we are waging a daily spiritual battle as long as we are here on earth. As I shared with my children the other day----every moment we are either doing the work of God or the work of the devil, which one will you do?

My prayer is that we will have spines of steel, steadfast determination and the wisdom of God as we recognize and destroy Satan's work at first sight. Are we not the keepers of our homes whom guard it from all evil?

Then it must begin with us first.

"That they may teach the young women to be sober, to love their husbands, to love their children, to be discreet, chaste, keepers at home, good, obedient to their own husbands, that the word of God be not blasphemed." Titus 2:4-5


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Monday, April 13, 2009

Duggar Grandchild Announcement

Children are definitely a blessing...but even more so are grandchildren!

Congratulations to our favorite family the Duggar's on the announcement of the pregnancy of their first grandchild! Here they are making the happy announcement:


Read more about Joshua and Anna's Courtship and their desire for children.

Friday, April 10, 2009

Future Mothers of the Church


"After years of society belittling the calling of motherhood, something wonderful is happening--something wonderfully counter-cultural! In the midst of the anti-life, anti-motherhood philosophies which pervade the culture, there is a new generation of young ladies whose priorities are not determined by the worlds expectations of them. They have grown up in homes where fathers shepherded them, where children are of merely welcome, but where they are deeply loved. Some of these women have been home educated, which means that many of them have grown up around babies and their mothers. They have learned to see motherhood as a joy and a high calling because their parents see it that way.

When asked about their future, these girls know their own minds. These are the future mothers of the Church: Young women who are not afraid to say that the goal of all of their education and training is to equip them to pursue the highest calling of womanhood--the office of wife and mother."

--Doug Phillips, The Little Boy Down the Road

Wednesday, April 8, 2009

Spring Into The Garden


In case you have been wondering where I have been, we have been very busy here at the Fuentes household. We are very excited to proclaim that we have been furiously working on.....the garden.

This is not just any vegetable plot we are creating, mind you, but it is officially 'The Family Garden'. The Family Garden is where every child and adult will have their own vegetable to tend and care for. It is a place where bean poles will be constructed from teenage daughters and small boys will be tucked inside them, hidden as protectors, with rifle in tow. It is a place where butterflies will visit and small daughters will giggle and chase them gleefully. It is a place where a young boy learns the principles of weeding and equates them with the sin that needs weeding in his own life. It is a refuge for the tired mother who has had a long day and there finds tranquility, bliss and peace. It is a nourishing place that will provide sustenance to a family of ten...the place of promise where small babies can pluck a large red tomato and experience the burst of its flavors during a moment of anticipated curiosity. Tell me, will you, what cannot be accomplished in a garden?



This year's endeavor included extending our tiny garden plot from last year and tripling it in size. We already started veggies from seed (lettuce, spinach, sunflowers, carrots, cucumbers and cilantro) and enjoying seeing their budding heads which come with a full promise of summerly expectations. We will also be planting onions, garlic, beans, peas, cabbage, tomatoes, radishes, peppers, etc.

I am anxiously anticipating the weather warming because this year we will try our hand at succession garden--which is merely planting more than once in one spot, I dabbled a bit in that last year and found it to be successful. I have read that some can plant 3 times into as far as December with hardy vegetables such as lettuce (could this be true for Zone 5?). We are planting in containers as well---since we have to keep the jalapenos away from the twins--and we will also have a bigger herb garden on the deck this year. Herb gardens are so easy that I am embarrassed to admit I had never had one until the previous year, this year though, there will be no holding back!

With the economy being in a recession, we would all be wise to learn to grow our own organic vegetables. And educationally speaking, this makes a great project to teach the children whether you homeschool or not. Gardening is a skill that can be passed down from generation to generation. It is a homemaking skill that is still valuable today for good health since store vegetables degrade quickly and are not of the same nutritive quality of that from the fresh home vegetable garden. So I encourage you, that if you are new to it, don't be afraid-----give it a try. You will be surprised at what you will find that you can grow and not kill (as in my case!).

I have found two gardening blogs that I have been frequenting that I would like to share with you--hopefully they will bless you as they did me:

Skippy's Vegetable Garden

In My Kitchen Garden

If you have any you'd like to recommend or any gardening tips, be sure to share them!

Tuesday, April 7, 2009

12 Year Old Speaks Out Against Abortion

I really enjoyed this young gal contending for and protecting unborn life.



Apparently, they had tried to persuade her to not choose this very touchy subject but she was determined to anyway. I'm glad she did. What courage!

Mothers, what are you teaching your 12 year old today?

Are you teaching them to defend the faith, protect life, and serve our King?

Or are they learning to be consumers, toxic with their comforts and despising their faith?

"Only be careful, and watch yourselves closely so that you do not forget the things your eyes have seen or let them slip from your heart as long as you live. Teach them to your children and to their children after them." Deuteronomy 4:9