Wednesday, September 30, 2009

Christian Feminism


Christian women cannot effectively begin to build and strengthen their families if they do not discern some of the key lies that are cleverly interwoven into our culture today. Sadly, these lies have pervaded our churches and homes as well and many biblical lines have been blurred. Feminism has distinctly played a key role is disguising these falsehoods as truth and deceiving too many unsuspecting families.

When Christian women and men believe and embrace these obvious perversions to the scripture we end up with a problem...

We now have given birth to what is known as 'Christian feminism' in the church.

This is dangerous because it teaches Christian women the opposite of scripture. It does not seek to build their homes but instead tears it down. The world uses every medium of communication to dispose their misleading forgeries upon unsuspecting families, but we must be wise to discern our lifestyles and philosophies today- especially among the body of Christ.

Pastor William Einwechter shares his thoughts on six areas where we have strayed from biblical norms in his article The Feminization of the Family:

"The feminization of the family is seen in at least six areas:

First, marriage has been destabilized, and divorce is rampant. Feminism’s “diabolization of marriage” has made divorce “socially and psychologically more acceptable by the idea that it is a reasonable response to a defective and dying institution.” The biblical teaching that marriage is a divine and covenantal institution that binds a man and woman together for life by a sacred vow (Gen. 2:18-24; Matt. 19:3-9) has been repudiated by modern society. The biblical concept has been replaced with the notion that marriage is a mere human institution, an imperfect one at that, and that divorce is a reasonable way to deal with any misery associated with it.

Second, male headship in the family has been replaced by an “egalitarian” arrangement where the husband and wife “share” in the leadership responsibilities of the family. The scriptural idea that the man is head of the family (1 Cor. 11:3-12; Eph. 5:22-23) and lord of his household (1 Pet. 3:5-6) is considered by feminists to be both tyrannical and barbaric, a vestige of primitive man and his ability to physically dominate his spouse. In our day, the overwhelming majority of both men and women scoff at the notion that the wife should submit to her husband’s authority.

Third, the man as provider has been rejected for a new model of joint economic responsibility. The view of our time is that the man is no more responsible than the woman to provide for the financial needs of the family. Feminists believe that the scriptural teaching the man is the family provider (1 Tim. 5:9) is part of a male conspiracy to hold women down by making them economically dependent on men.

Fourth, the women as a full-time homemaker is scorned, and the working woman who seeks fulfillment and independence in employment outside of her home is now a cultural norm. The biblical mandate that a woman be a “keeper at home” (Titus 2:4-5) is either unknown or unheeded. Feminist-minded folks consider it to be a demeaning thing for a woman to stay at home and confine her work to the sphere of her house and her family. A career is considered more suitable and meaningful for today’s wife and mother.

Fifth, the biblical norm of a woman as a nurturer of children has been replaced by the feminist ideal of a working mother who places her children in “daycare” so that she can pursue other important matters. The responsibility of motherhood is seen in far different terms than it was in the past. The biblical call to the mother to be with her children, to love, train, teach, and protect them (1 Tim. 2:15; 5:14) is rejected for the feminist vision of the woman who is freed from such constraints on her individuality and own fulfillment.

Sixth, the idea that a large family is a “blessing” is rejected for notion that a small family of one or two children (and for some, no children at all) is far better. The concept of “family planning” geared at reducing the number of children in the home is advocated by nearly all. The biblical teaching that a large family is due to God’s blessing and sovereignty (Ps. 127; 128) is despised by modern families, even those claiming to be Christian. The feminist’s view that we determine the number of children we will have, that we are sovereign over such matters is now accepted with hardly a question. Of course, this supposed sovereignty over life and birth leads to a justification of abortion, the ultimate birth control."

*Be sure to read this post carefully.* This is not a post attacking women who have to work or have to stop having children due to medical reasons,etc. It is attacking the ideas that demean, ridicule and mock what is holy and upheld in Scripture. We need to take a closer look at what is accepted as normative society today and see how it parallels with Scripture.

And in the spirit of Proverbs 31 and Titus 2,

we must be able to defend scripture
and the biblical family
even if it means taking a stand against this world
and it's misleading fallacies
and understand that

our

silence
is

surrender.










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34 wise responses:

Lady Jen said...

Excellent post! I link to you often and enjoy your insights.

Green Thumb Mama said...

As a former angry feminist whose heart was seized by the Holy Spirit and was given the gift of truth...

AMEN!!!

Excellent post! I hope you don't mind me linking to it today!

Beth said...

Thank you so much for your beautiful blog. Sometimes I feel so far away from people who believe the way that I do. I am praying to find a like minded lady friend in our area. However, I am happy to be able to connect with people by their blogs! I am planning to "follow" yours and read all your wonderful posts...when time allows. Right now, we have homeschooling to do and dishes in the sink! Blessings! Beth

mrshester said...

Amen.

Collette@Jesuslovesmums said...

I enjoyed reading this post June and agree with what you have to say. I think our Churches do need to be braver and promote Biblical womanhood definately. They can also do so in a Grace filled way - some women do need to work, others can't have children due to medical reasons,etc.
My husband and I have decided to leave it at two children because I had post natal depression and he has anxiety problems. Our home is only 2 bedrooms also and I am not getting any younger !! (34! this Nov). I also send my eldest to Public school but it is a small local school with excellent community links and allowed our Church in to promote Sunday school. So I have no issue with this choice at the moment.
Thank you for a thought provoking post and your blogs faithfulness.
Love Collette xxx

silent_librarian said...

Amen! We must press hard with this message in the church today, which is permeated with Evangelical Feminism. There must be a change in our hearts and the leading back to Biblical truths.

Thanks for posting this! May you be filled with His wisdom and love!

Paulina said...

I need to show this to my parents, who hold some of these beliefs.

Thanks for sharing!

In Him,
Paulina

Grace said...

Thank you so much for this excellent reminder. I stop by here often to be encouraged and inspired.

Katrina said...

Great post! I really enjoyed reading this one. Men & women need to turn to the Bible to live life the right way.

kimberly in idaho said...

Our church has been taken over by Christian Feminism. What breaks my heart the most is that the pastor's wife works full time, outside the home. My husband was told it is a "freedom in Christ". There is a Titus 2 study beginning. I looked at the book and Homekeeping is left out. We have been in prayer that God's will be done in our lives. We have been told that our concerns are stemming from Spiritual Warfare and we must press on and see our church through this hard time. I have also been told that I am being too judgemental. Our hearts are breaking for our church, they are our family. In all honesty, are we wrong to want to leave? Please be honest, I think you are an amazing godly woman.

hip chick said...

It seems as if in our rush to be equal we forgot how special our role as women really is. Instead of giving value to Christian or "traditional" roles for women, we de-valued and degraded them. Instead of lifting each other up we have done nothing but tear each other down.
I am so glad that I was able to realize the beautiful gift the Lord gave me when He made me a woman. I would never want to scorn that gift by trying to be like a man.

Leah said...

An inspiring and provoking read; thank you - lots to ponder...

Valencia said...

Being a woman is the greatest gift God has given me!!

Tereza Crump aka MyTreasuredCreations said...

I recently found your blog and it really encourages me. Sometimes it feels like I am the only one that have certain believes, but that is not true. :) I have now for the last 7 years been walking and learning to be a woman after God's heart. it's amazing how we can deceive ourselves and how many women that call themselves Christians will rather walk by their excuses and personal justifications than by FAITH in Jesus and His Word. Thank you again for your wise words. :) Tereza

One Christian Mom said...

Thank you so much! I have been called for the life I lead, and am routinely questioned about it. People wonder why I don't "help out" with the finances (never mind I juggle a very delicate budget), why I insist on "staying home", (never mind that we are out 4 or so days a week doing various things), or why I let my husband "run my life" when I should have "kicked him to the curb" a year or so ago (never mind that I am trying to model a biblical example, or *gasp* still love him for his shortcomings). I needed this affirmation today :D
Shellie

Zimmersgirl said...

In some ways, if you really think about it, feminism goes back to the Garden. When Eve took the fruit, she was in direct violation of God's orders because she wanted to be "equal". When God cursed her, it is written that her desire would be for her husband and he would rule over her. If you really think about it, what her desire really was for was to "rule the roost" not full of affection for Adam.

Feminism continues to reshape itself and reposition itself, seeking those cracks to sneak into but one thing remains the same, it is a very effective lie that the enemy has used to put our homes in disarray since the beginning.

Thank you for the reminder of what we stand! Our God created us and He knows best what we need. It would be in our best interests to heed His design for our marriages and families.

Sarah Mae said...

You inspire me ABUNDANTLY!

Thank you.

Abounding Treasures said...

June,

As always - an excellent post complete with Scriptures to back up every point and in this day, amongst so-called *Christian feminism*, that is SO IMPORTANT!!

I am so glad to have discovered blogging almost 2 years ago because it has brought me into contact with other women who appreciate their God-given role and yearn to be used of Him, just where He would have them be.

We are all [both male and female] called to live sanctified or set apart lives, given over to the leading and guidance of the Holy Spirit through the Word and I continue to pray for a lamb-like spirit that yearns to bow to His leading in my life.

Thankfully, even when I fail, He knows the desires of my heart.

Blessings!

The Southern Housewife said...

Totally agree! However, I'm curious as to what you think on those women who follow everything but do not feel that children are meant for them. I have never wanted children.

I am actively involved in animal rescue and feel that is my calling. If we ever do decide to have children, I'd love to adopt.

Together We Save said...

Excellent post!! Your post is a blessing.

Erika said...

Wow, thank you for this post. It's a good summary of feminism. I'm definitely saving this particular post because I think I shall need to refer back to it in the future. :)
In His grace,
Erika

Mrs.Rabe said...

Excellent post!

Katy~The Country Blossom said...

I completely agree with this post! :) I am a wife and homeschooling stay at home mother of three (although I would have loved to have more children) and I do believe the man is the head of the household...but also in his loving of me...he considers my opinion greatly on things and we are a perfect team. :) I pray more women will be convicted of these different areas of their lives and find where God wants them. :)

greggsgal said...

Excellent post. Thank you so much. In my Sunday School class of 20 couples, I am the only mother who does not work outside of the home. It was a very sobering reality.

Toodlebugz said...

June,
Thank you for this post.The silence in the church is deafening.How can Christians expect to have a generation of holiness when we see children as burdening and haul them off to be raised by a socialist embracing culture.Once again you have laid out the truth for all to see.Hopefully we will not turn a blind eye.

TheMama said...

Thanks June. I always know when I stop by your blog that I will learn something important.

Denice H. said...

Mrs. Fuentes, you are such an ecouragement to me. I am a homemaker raising and homeschooling my 5 children (2 girls and triplet boys) to live for the Lord. Are there any books you and your husband could recommend to my husband for encouragement? I am currently reading 'Passionate Housewives Desperate for God' and I would love for my husband to have an encouraging book also. Thanks, Denice

Mrs. June Fuentes said...

Dear Kimberly in Idaho,

As much as I'd like to help, I do not know your situation well enough to advise whether or not you should leave the church, this is a decision you and your husband will have to carefully pray about and that he should ultimately decide. But I will definitely be praying for your situation.

**********************

Dear Denice H.,

Some key books my husband enjoyed reading that encouraged men were:

The Federal Husband-Doug Wilson

and

Safely Home-Tom Eldredge

We have a webpage of books we recommend that we used to sell, you can view that here:

www.homebuildersbookstore.blogspot.com

Hope that helps!

Many blessings...

Martha said...
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